I think prefork/mod_php is still the default setup, and it's a really good one to get away from right away if you plan on handling any serious traffic.
Using nginx/php-fpm is great, so long as you don't need support for Apache-style .htaccess files. Since I'm adminning a shared hosting environment, I can't give up support for .htaccess files; if you intend to only host your own site, and your site doesn't need that, then by all means please use nginx & php-fpm, you'll save yourself a lot of headaches.
Setting up an nginx proxy seems like kind of a cheat in a discussion about tuning Apache -- "how to tune Apache: 1. don't tune Apache, set up nginx proxies instead..." -- but suffice it to say that setting up proxying nginx servers is on my to-do list.
I have not yet though had a traffic-related site outage (see also http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4619906), so it's not as high on my list as things like "recurring payments system". :-)
Using nginx/php-fpm is great, so long as you don't need support for Apache-style .htaccess files. Since I'm adminning a shared hosting environment, I can't give up support for .htaccess files; if you intend to only host your own site, and your site doesn't need that, then by all means please use nginx & php-fpm, you'll save yourself a lot of headaches.
Setting up an nginx proxy seems like kind of a cheat in a discussion about tuning Apache -- "how to tune Apache: 1. don't tune Apache, set up nginx proxies instead..." -- but suffice it to say that setting up proxying nginx servers is on my to-do list.
I have not yet though had a traffic-related site outage (see also http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4619906), so it's not as high on my list as things like "recurring payments system". :-)