I would suggest considering still being open to deep connections with people, platonic, romantic, or otherwise. There is a cost, but the juice can be worth the squeeze. Embrace the joy of it, and mitigate the cost (emotional fortitude, self confidence).
I'm not necessarily opposed to it, but I'm overly cautious about it. Which drastically reduces my chances of forming deep connections, given how hard it can be even for those that are eager for it.
