Some of us would love to work on a team like this. It would be nice to have the option. Your definition of "acceptable" might not actually result in teams that can take on the big challenges we face as a species as men who did find this kind of thing acceptable retire out of the workforce.
If "We've always done it this way and it's a risk to do it differently" was the argument that carried the day, few of us would have to worry about these questions at all because we'd never have gotten out from under feudalism.