One thing at a time. As a fellow procrastinator, I couldn't contemplate trying to fix everything at once!
You don't think you're currently employable in a field you'd like to be in, but there's no question that you have the ability required to do those jobs. How about doing a bootcamp then entering the workforce as a "bootcamp grad"? Your previous knowledge and experience should make climbing the ladder from there relatively easy, you just need a foot in the door.
If you're not currently eligible to work in the US, all is not lost. There are definitely more interesting and lively places to be than your small town, and if you're in the EU moving to one of them should be straightforward. Make a list of cities you'd like to live in, apply for jobs in those places.
So now you've got a job, and are in an exciting new city. Start dating. Regarding fertility there are plenty of women in their thirties who'd be totally happy with someone ten years older, and many will be looking for someone to start a family with.
You could do things in a different order, but if you find the relationship first you risk making more strong ties to a place you don't want to live and if you find a not-great job first that may inhibit your progress towards the life you want.
You don't think you're currently employable in a field you'd like to be in, but there's no question that you have the ability required to do those jobs. How about doing a bootcamp then entering the workforce as a "bootcamp grad"? Your previous knowledge and experience should make climbing the ladder from there relatively easy, you just need a foot in the door.
If you're not currently eligible to work in the US, all is not lost. There are definitely more interesting and lively places to be than your small town, and if you're in the EU moving to one of them should be straightforward. Make a list of cities you'd like to live in, apply for jobs in those places.
So now you've got a job, and are in an exciting new city. Start dating. Regarding fertility there are plenty of women in their thirties who'd be totally happy with someone ten years older, and many will be looking for someone to start a family with.
You could do things in a different order, but if you find the relationship first you risk making more strong ties to a place you don't want to live and if you find a not-great job first that may inhibit your progress towards the life you want.