My counter to you. When you hear a few songs by the performer and like them, do you not want to go to the concert to hear them live for once? Or do you start tracking their every performance and go to every concert they ever perform at? When you see a picture of a place you like, do you only go to that particular place and nowhere else from that point on, or possibly you want to explore more? Although your analogy is absolutely flawed in that it compares leisure with work, by following up with it, I guess everybody should be fine meeting their colleagues for a drink a couple times a year rather than going to see them every day whether you like them or not.