I mean this will all due respect; you need to interact face to face with people more. Learning how to talk to people like a human in a space where you can see how they react will help with:
>You cannot reasonably expect me to discern with 100% success rate between ignorance, software developer hubris and exaggeration ?
And this:
>I'm not willing to take the risk of letting someone get away with such a comment if they really believe it ;)
You know you don't win anything here, right? The score is made up and the points don't matter.