First, I'm aware of the origin of the term; but "guy" was taken so I made do.
Second, you don't care, but ... I'm afraid to break the news to you but there are billions of other people on the planet today, including me. I care.
Personally, I don't like the term from my language not only because of the possible reception but also it doesn't feel right to use it.
I can imagine that they are reminded of its original meaning, sapping any sort of desire to use the term. At least, that's how I feel about many of these "problematic" words.
Personally, I don't like the term from my language not only because of the possible reception but also it doesn't feel right to use it.