Thanks for your thoughts. I agree that using software would be easier, but I wanted to do it in hardware in this specific case.
I am unfamiliar with Raspberry pi, but if my understanding is correct, it's running a real os. So I would need to send it a command to actually shut down every time I want to remove the usb device. More generally, having a general purpose OS on the little device seems overkill for that use case, no?
ChatGPT isn't wrong - this sounds like what you need: https://pypi.org/project/zero-hid/.