So respectfully empathize with him, and point out your differences about activism.
Telling him to "stick to coding" makes you an insensitive clod, and sends a dangerous message to others with suicidal thoughts that their feelings are not welcome.
> So respectfully empathize with him, and point out your differences about activism.
There's no moral problem with being slightly irreverent to someone in such a strong position: Atwood is apparently financially successful and has a large readership. He is also — unlike the target of his own criticism — alive.
So maybe your concern is strategic. I happen to think "respectful empathy" would have been a worse way of making my point.
Finally, I think my article is pretty clear. The category of person I want to "stick to coding" is "Jeff Atwood", or, more specifically, "Jeff Atwood talking about something he knows nothing about in a socially-damaging way". I don't think anyone would come away with the impression that I don't want to hear from people who've thought about suicide (hence why I didn't mention that aspect of Atwood's post at all).
> being slightly irreverent to someone in such a strong position
You're also telling everyone who happens to agree with Atwood to shut up. And they don't all have the same strong position.
You're not WRITING AN EMAIL TO ATWOOD, you're broadcasting to the world that everyone who agrees with him is wrong. And you're doing it disrespectfully.
> (hence why I didn't mention that aspect of Atwood's post at all).
Don't you think, given the topic, that you should have specifically mentioned that category of people, and shown empathy? Perhaps starting with Atwood, and generalizing from there?
Fuck it - you don't care what I think, and you're casual about telling people to shut up, so my efforts are completely pointless.
I think your post is the dangerous one.