Split baby's time with your partner - there is no need for both parents to be exhausted. If your baby doesn't need you at night - it's better to get some sleep so at least one of the parents stays sane for some time. If the grandparents can help and offer help - accept to the maximum. Don't buy new things - try to get as many as you can for free or buy used ones (car seat, clothes, toys, books etc.) It is very hard for both parents, try to give your partner as much "her" time as possible - she is tired both physically and mentally. Make photos! Make at least a few every day. Remember all babies are different, if your friend's baby is sleeping well and your is not - it is ok. Don't compare you child to the others. Listen to the specialist's advise only. Our daughter was eating every half an hour but it was totally ok (from baby's health point of view). Overall it is not easy but it is ok ) It's also ok to get tired and annoyed and angry - it is all part of the process and life as we know it ) Best of luck eh.